Hiiii! Hmmm I can relate, I have oily lids too. What kind of eyeshadow are you using? U may want to stay away from cream eyeshadows in the future. Since you’ve tried a bunch of primers, I suggest also setting your lids with a light brush of powder before the primer just to sop up any excess oils on your lid. Try that and let me know how it works out for you! Hope this helps!