Hi i am transitioning and I've decided to do the big chop but i am afraid people say you have nappy hair ans your going to look terrible i am tired of the relaxed hair what do you suggest i do?

I suggest you stop caring about what those people think and get them out of your life immediately, because they are toxic to your well-being as well as your self-confidence. Find a picture of a style you like, take it to your stylist, make the big chop happen…and rock the hell out of it!